Guaca, guaca, guaca...guacamole!

Good guacamole can be hard to come by. Finding some, and by that I mean whipping up a batch myself, has been on my "to-do" list ever since I got back. Today, I finally got around to it. After several attempts to buy avocados that weren't destined to go bad, I finally managed to purchase 2 that were absolutely perfect. Just the right amount of ripe, the insides going from a lovely yellowish green near the pit to a more lime green shade just next to the skin. They were soft enough to mash up with a bamboo spoon, which I did, since I heard somewhere (though I don't know if it's true) that metal [forks] and avocados don't mix--starts a slow chemical reaction or something, I guess. Then I added tomatoes, a pinch of garlic salt, half an onion, some cilantro, and a touch of lime juice. I don't know if that's how you're supposed to do it; regardless, the general opinion around here is that my guacamole is awesome. This batch was no exception. After I tested it and unanimously declared it one of my best batches ever, I decided to be gracious and allow Jane, my sister, to devour some with me. We dove in. It was glorious. I then changed my facebook status to, "I miss China today. Therefore, I will comfort myself with guacamole and corn chips."

The reason I find this comforting is that it is almost impossible to find avocados in China. You can easily procure the rest of the ingredients, but avocados remain exasperatingly elusive. Southern China has the climate to grow avocados, but for some reason they don't. The Vietnamese both have and know what to do with avocados, but, somehow, this knowledge has tragically bypassed the entire Chinese population. Therefore, guacamole, though not impossible to find, is one of the rarest of all delicacies in China.

Eating it, then, isn't so much a comfort to me as it is a reminder that there are perks to living in the States. And when those moments come where I miss China so much that I can hardly breathe, guacamole helps me live in the present. It's a party in my mouth that is here, now, and good. Living in America isn't so bad after all. And since I need to remind myself of this daily, I'm glad there's some left over for tomorrow too.

Until next time...I'll be eating my heart out. Peace.

Some Like It Hot

Tonight as I watched my brother-in-law, Matt, whip up a delicious chicken concoction involving frying things in one pan, taking them out, frying other things in the same pan, putting all the fried things together in the same pan, etc., I heard him make the comment, "I wish we had one of those heating lamps, like at McDonalds." After my verbal, "ewww" and the non-verbal "ewww-what-are-you-thinking" look communicated by sister's face, Matt responded, "What? All restaurants have them. That's how four plates come out at the same time, and they're all hot."

And then I realized one of the reasons I like eating at American restaurants. You see, I have a little blood sugar problem. There is a very strong correlation between my blood sugar and my mood. Low sugar = possible imminent homicide. High sugar = high flying fun + head ache to follow. Eating something my mother would term as "decent" at least three times a day = a fairly pleasant Anna.

Here's how my borderline hypoglycemia relates to why I like American restaurants. You see here, I don't have to choose between being a good person and food. My food may be able to wait patiently for me under a heat lamp in the kitchen until all the plates for our table are whisked out to the dining area where we can all commence devouring our dishes together. But I have an extremely difficult time waiting eat if my food is just sitting in front of me and mere politeness dictates that I may not touch a single morsel. Any American restaurant worth its trendy organic sea salt will spare me the choice between looking like a jerk for eating in front of someone, and looking like a jerk for killing someone because they got between me and my food. Thank you America, thank you heat lamps.

This is not so in China. Here's how group meals go in China. You arrive at the restaurant with your people, normally at the busiest hour and without a reservation. You inform the tired, surly hostess that there are eight of you. She informs you (the one with the rapidly falling blood sugar) that you're going to have to wait at least twenty minutes for a table. Since the rest of the people in your party are normal and aren't afflicted with a persnickety metabolism, they say that a twenty minute wait won't be a problem. For the sake of group harmony, you pretend the same thing. After an annoying half hour of watching other people slowly finish their delicious food and then linger at the table a while, digesting before they leave, you are all finally seated.

Now it is the task of one, or possibly two, people at your table to order. In a traditional Chinese restaurant, ordering dinner is a fine art. In China, dishes typically do not come in a neat little entree package with the chicken, potatoes, and vegetables all portioned out on your plate like they do here in the States. If you order a plate of kong xin cai (heartless vegetable), that's all that's on the plate. Just a big, heaping mound of kong xin cai. Hardly a full meal. Same thing with the ma la shu tiao (numb-spicy french fries), yu xiang qie zi (fish-flavored eggplant), and the gong bao ji ding (kung pao chicken). Ordering then, means that one must choose dishes so that the perfect balance of flavors and textures; meat and vegetables is achieved, all while taking into account what your group is (probably) in the mood to eat and pay for. Order up everyone's favorite song shu yu (sweet and sour squirrel fish). Make sure there are vegetables, eggs, and tofu in the mix so that the vegetarian doesn't starve. And, the most important after thought, don't forget the rice. The waitress will then ask if it's OK to bring the food out now. What a ridiculous question.

From there 's just a waiting game. Fortunately in China, you usually don't have to wait long for the first dish to come out. Five to fifteen minutes is usually all it takes, a fact that perpetually amazed me since the ordering to entree time in the U.S. is usually a good twenty minutes or more. Twiddling your chopsticks and exchanging pleasantries while looking forward to the arrival of the first dish isn't the real waiting game though. No, no. It's only after the arrival of the much anticipated, long awaited first dish that the true test comes, the second fact that perpetually amazed me: no one acknowledges the existence of this food; instead, everyone pretends it's not there. No one picks up their chopsticks. The conversation continues as if nothing has happened. The people at the table who aren't me won't even spare the food a longing glance. There's a plate of mouth-watering pai gu (short ribs) sitting in the middle of the lazy Susan and everyone is ignoring it!

I call this part of the meal the "sit-and-stare-portion," mainly because I sit and stare at my tea cup, using all the self-control I can muster to be polite, culturally sensitive, and NOT descend upon the food like a ravenous wolf. Everyone else at the table continues talking and ignoring. This is not because they aren't hungry or because they dislike what was ordered; rather, it is because they were well raised. You see, their good Chinese mothers taught them that a good person is civilized and refined, not greedy and rude. A civilized person will be well fed, thus making an edacious descent upon the food both inappropriate and unnecessary. Furthermore, they will have a palette refined enough so that the thought of eating only one dish at a time is disagreeable. After all, whoever ordered your meal meant for the dishes to work together and complement one another. It would be insulting and distasteful to eat them one at a time.

After the second or third dish finally makes its way to the table, one or two of the group members might bring it to our attention that, hey, the food is here. A mixture of relief and desperation washes over me. We're almost to the eating part of the meal. There's just one last awkward detail to take care of: who eats first? A good, civilized person would not hungrily take the first bite of a meal for themselves; rather, if they should happen to deserve it, that honor will be bestowed upon them by the other members of the group. Modesty dictates that they refuse this honor (ideally two to three times) and try to pass it on to someone else. Eventually, after lots of polite, "No, you eat first!"s, everyone will come to a consensus about who should begin the feast.

As soon as that guy's chopsticks touch the food, everyone else makes their move. The lazy Susan starts spinning, the chopsticks go in like hungry sharks, and for the first time in about an hour I realize that I'm eating with friends, and that I don't want to kill them all. My blood sugar begins a steady rise. My countenance clears. I decide China's not so bad after all and enjoy the rest of the meal.

Maybe we don't need those McDonalds heat lamps after all.

Driving Song Sung Blue

Whenever I've come back to the States, one of the questions I'm inevitably asked is, "How's driving? Did you miss it?" The answers, respectively, are, "I don't like driving," and "No." Then I get a funny look from my American questioner who thinks I'm weird.

A lot of people like having control of the vehicle in which they're riding; I prefer to give up that control and be able to look around at the scenery (not just the scenery immediately surrounding the road), space out, nap, or do whatever else. I'm not sure when I became such a rider. I think it has something to do with never having to drive in China, and never being able to even if I wanted. I had to learn the joy of giving up control.

And now I have to learn the joy of taking back control. For better or for worse, America is set up for drivers. Volkswagen tells me that drivers are wanted. Just about everyone over the age of 18 and living outside of New York City, Portland, or Washington D.C. has a vehicle of some sort. The entire infrastructure of the United States is set up so you have to drive--particularly in the Midwest. My nearest grocery store is at least a mile and a half away, if not two or more, and there's not really a good walking or bike path to get there. Not to mention that American style grocery buying means getting all your food for at least a week, thus making it impractical to carry on foot or bike. There are also few restaurants within reasonable walking distance, not that I'd have money to spend in them anyway.

And this doesn't even cover more "long distance" trips. America is big, and my family and friends are spread throughout its vast area. From Omaha to South Sioux City, where mom teachers and mostly lives, is almost 2 hours. To dad in Minnesota? About 6 hours. Ugh.

But there is one thing that may turn the tide of my opinion about driving: Neil Diamond. Such passion, such depth of emotion! What can I say? Cracklin' Rosie does make me smile. And my song sung blue? About driving? Well, I've taken that blues, made a song, and sung it out again! My good times with Sweet Caroline? They've never been better! After a few hours in the car with Neil, I'm smilin', I'm singing, I'm thinking that this may be best day of my life. I don't care how far away it is, I'll drive to "Brother Love's Travelin' Salvation Show." Hallelujah, brothers! "The Grass Won't Pay No Mind" if I drive by it instead of sitting on it, soaking up the sunshine. And the only thing I'm sad about at the end of the drive is for its "bein' done too soon, for bein' done..."

The Way We Roll

Well fans, today we have a guessing game. What is in the picture above, besides a couple of glasses and salt and pepper shakers? What's in the dish?

Ice cream? Nope. Guess again! It's...butter!!! Now, I'm all for butter. I think it's a great fat with which to cook and bake, and it also makes a simple, tasty topping for bread, toast, pancakes, waffles, croissants, rolls, etc., as it is meant to be here. My parents and I were three people. We had, maybe, two pieces of bread each, and all of that butter at our disposal. It just blew my mind.

The second interesting thing about that particular dining experience was the menu. There was a portion of the menu entitled, "The Lighter Side" where the first item was an 8 oz. steak. Now, to be fair, we were in rural South Dakota at the "nice" restaurant in town. They cater to us solid body construction Midwesterners that come in with big appetites and certain expectations about not going home hungry. And I understand that. But I still have a hard time putting half a pound of beef in the "light" category. I pointed out this seemingly paradoxical menu item to mom and dad who hadn't given it a second thought until I said something. They chuckled and shrugged, maybe a little sheepishly, and then pointed out that an 8 oz. steak was light compared to a 12 or 16 oz. steak.

Well, they have a point, I suppose. To quote a Texan I met once, "The only thing better than steak and potatoes is steak and steak! With prime rib for variety!" (Still one of my most favorite quotes of all time.) That's how folks around here roll.

Weird.

Another Blog to Follow

Well, blog fans, here is another blog to follow. I felt that between all your chat services, facebook, twitter, links sent to you by your friends, other blogs, e-mails, news updates, and everything else you follow in your information overloaded life, you needed something else. But after several requests from friends to write about my re-entry into life in these United States, I decided to do this blog. You asked for it: here it is.

And here's a bit more what it's about. I've been living in Asia for roughly the last 5 years. I used to think Asia was weird. There were weird things to eat (snakes, cats, dogs, rats...), weird fashion choices (not even Stacy London and Clinton Kelly could save that continent), weird smells (stinky doufu, public toilets), weird fruits (durian, anyone?), weird knock-off versions of name brands (you buy a "Rolex" watch only to look down and find out it's a "Bolex" that has stopped running already), weird versions of things that are supposed to be familiar (who's ever tried the seafood corn pizza topped with mayonnaise at Pizza Hut? or found that you bought the wrong tickets and ended up in the movie that's dubbed over in Chinese?), and people everywhere. And, just for the record, they seemed weird to me too.

Then I lived in Asia for a while and realized that at 5'10" (178 cm) tall, with skin as white as white on rice, with hair and eyes that are a light brown, a tall nose stuck on my face, and the solid body construction of my Midwestern American frame, I was the weird one. I also realized that while Asia is weird in it's own special way, so is America. So that's what this blog is about: Weirdness. What follows is about culture shock, written about in the form of Seinfeld-esque observations about the differences between Asia, specifically mainland China, and the U.S. Most of what I write will probably be trite, skewed toward my perspectives and biases, and will probably be inaccurate in one way or another, etc. Fortunately, this blog is not meant to be a definitive commentary on anything other than myself. Like every good blogger, I'll be self-centered and broadcasting myself to the world. If you don't like it, don't read it.

After that disclaimer, one more: I'm not really that "in to" blogging, and it's possible that I may lose momentum on this project. The last time I started a blog, I kept up with it for a bit and then lost enthusiasm and, for the most part, stopped posting. Then I moved to mainland China and forgot my log in name (although, to my credit, I did remember my password) and really stopped posting. Forever. Anna's Asian Adventures died sometime in June of 2006. Fortunately, this blog will probably have a time limit. Within a year, I hope to be happily reintegrated into America, able to discuss the latest sitcoms, sporting events, and pop culture with the best of " 'em" while hardly even noticing all the things screaming "different!!!!!!!" that are presently assaulting my senses and mind from inside and out. My writing and observations will become less sharp, my insight will fail me, and it will be time to discontinue this blog. But until then, I will write.

OK, those are all the disclaimers I have for now. My next posts will be chirpy, cheerful, and hopefully entertaining. Cheers!